Hi PL,
Well, it seems that you have made a huge turn around for yourself! This is good. I think by truly detaching and letting go, will be a step in the right direction for you.

I'm not sure if our H's will ever 'get it' but I still have hopes. This was the hardest part for me in letting go. To quit thinking up ways that I could 'help' H or ways to talk to him or drive by his work to see if he was there just in the hopes of catching a 'glimpse' of him. You and I are in a much better place right now and will give us time to work on ourselves.

My divine voice came to me about a month ago and since then, I have truly been at such peace with myself that I'm now able to wait patiently. I still don't like the situation but am okay with it, if that makes any sense.

Thanks for sharing some of your notes from your phone consult w/Chuck. I too have wondered about whether or not to occassionally contact H to invite to family functions or out to dinner. I've been told not to, that it is time for him to pursue me. But I have noticed recently on the times that I have had to contact him, he is always quick to respond and even prolongs the talk time. This plus your observation leads me to believe that I may need to change my tactics a bit.

I think you are doing great and I like new assertive you!
{{{hugs}}}
Sooner

When we get tangled up in our problems, be still. God wants us to be still so He can untangle the knot.