PL, I'm still here although I don't post much. I believe in you. You are finding your inner strength, in your case, thru God. That is great.
"Someone", God or otherwise has put us in this situation. It is sink or swim time folks. Only "we" have the power to control our destiny and our future. If our spouse's did not have this "crisis" we would have just continued along our merry way. This has forced us to look deep within ourselves and to grow and improve. We needed this to wake up and smell the coffee. We (at least I was) were selfish in thinking that everything revolved around me and my feelings. We are now forced to consider the feelings of others; even though they may not coincide with ours. We now need to be compasionate and show empathy to our S's and say Hey, that's how you feel huh?, I can totally understand that.
