Quote: There are lots of people in my life that do not understand this. I am paring down who I will talk to now. I probably should not have trusted so many - some of my friends that "know" have too much fear and not enough spirituality and trust to fathom what I am doing. I am tired of people making H wrong for where he is at, or what he is doing. H is learning something powerful and deep for his life. I have confidence he will emerge. He is a smart man and a good man. I am 100% certain H was not out to hurt me - he was not, and is not, a bad guy.
Wow, so eloquently put. That is exactly how I feel too.
Quote: I used to think my anger was a healthy expression. And now I have found that it just creates a set back, and is pretty much a waste of time and energy which always requires "clean up" afterwards. My H, who is a really sensitive man, had every reason to be skeptical of this change, because he had been hurt by my anger and impatience many times.
Again, I think this also applies to my sitch as well.
PL, I really admire your strength and determination to save your M. That and the fact that you are so insightful and really have your head together. I know it is alot to ask, since this board is pretty much annonomous (sp), but I would love to talk to you via e-mail or on the phone. Actually I would love to do the same with Always14, Grasshopper and Jokerman (I have actually privately e-mailed with him and he has really helped me see things thru a "cheaters" eyes).
If you are interested, let me know, I feel like you are people that I could really become friends with. Thanks, Mama
