PL, I really recomend anyone feeling down in the dumps (like I was) to read The Six Pillars of Self Esteem by Nathaniel Branden. It may not make our spouses come home but the change in my spirit is amazing. I have been awakening my hopes and dreams. Really looking at my life and trying to discover what I want. Where before I though I wanted H back completely, now I am looking at him for real not through those loving and completly forgiving eyes. But seeing the real him. I think for too long we sit and wait for our spouses to decide if they are going to grow up. It is time for us to decide what we want to do with our lives and move forward. Our H's will come with or they will fall behind. Either way we will be fine. Not just PMA but a positively wonderful life!
Keep up the good work! You are being so strong! I like that you are doing your own thing. Try not to get too hung up on DB method you should blend with your own style. You are a strong confident woman! I have seen many of your posts and you are also a smart lady. I hope your H sees what he is missing!
