PL, I'm enjoying, no wrong word, I'm appreciating your postings.
I guess my situation is a bit different in that I think my W is actually being the person she was when I met. I'm her 3rd M, and she claims that they both cheated on her and that's the primary reason she D'd them. In some ways I think she's wanted me to as well to have a reason to leave. The thing for me is that we met in a bar, always partied a lot, became best friends, ect. She has always liked attention and even since we've been married will tease and flirt but it never really bothered me till the past 18 months as she's pulled away. I guess the bottom line for me is that she's simply reverted back to character. My hope is that eventually, if we ever do reconcile, is that because I'm still here for her, that she will finally understand a little better what love is and more importantly what and where true happiness comes from.
