Hi PL, My advice would be this, should you take it; You seem to be obsessed with this board and finding a "solution". I myself feel this way too.
I gather that you are a "Type A, fixer" personality, as I am. This is something that we cannot fix and it is making us crazy. Right?
You seem to have a lot going for you in your life right now, try to refocus all of your energy there. BTW, I am really proud of your weight loss!! I too lost about 25 lbs., doesn't it feel fantastic? The attention from the guy at the mexican place was nice, felt good on your ego, just don't act on it (like our H's did).
