Well, I dabbled in H's text message world, and look what happened. He obviously can't keep us straight. H sent me a text message last night at 9:42 pm, intended for the OW. I read it this morning, thought he was texting me again, that would have been sweet. Whoops. All in German, their little pet names, how much he loves her, bleh, barf.
So no new news really. He's still infatuated with the OW, but now he can't keep it straight who he is sending the messages to. What should I do? Pretty weird to ignore such a boundary violation. But what good will it do to say anything at this point? And if I did, what can I say?
"Thanks for the sweet love note text last night - made my day" OR write him a love note back in German? OR "Confusing us, are you?"
Let's have some fun here. I'm all ears for your advice Because getting mad would be too easy.
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