This is my first post to you. I just finished looking closer at your sitch. You are the first example w/WAW that has second A, was online dating....just like my WAW who just seemed to have started her second A. For some time I felt like I'm the only one here.
I admire your strengh. Since I believe my W has started the 2nd A (while she was 'working on the M') I'm ready to give up.
No advice but lots of support from me. Hang in there.
