She still does not trust you but time is working on her.
She still chooses to remember what she wants to remember – mostly the negatives. She was not lying when she said that she was always honest. From her point of view that is what she remembers. She has to or her view of you and M would be in question. That is why they rewrite history.
She still is not ready to try again. From her view she has tried and tried. She will not risk getting burned again. She is still weak. That is why they are so entrenched in their positions. If they were stronger they would risk it b/c they would know that even if the worst happens, their self-esteem would support them. They do not trust themselves.
She still sounds just like my W.
Yes Paul, these are baby steps. You did well. She may start to come around or not but I read strength in your words. Your self-esteem will see you through this.
