Quote: I will go for 50% custody but most likely will be wasting my money and time.
Went to Dads in Distress meeting tonight. Was alot better than I thought it would be. Gave me alot of advice, some was very similar to what we know from DBing. One piece of advice they gave me regarding custody was keep a diary of any times you have the children or take them on outings. The diary will be admissable in court, if it gets that far. You can work on the W's perception of you through others ie. relatives, mutual friends and of course the children.
Am glad I went to the meeting and will be a regular attendee I reckon. The old hands there knew of MLC and were pro marriage as well as suportive if and when the M is totally over.
Feel better about the sitch, now I have found another lifeline.