hi all, now I see W has signed up for two different online dating services. I guess she is trying out her options. This really gets to me. Currently I am seperated (3 months) and paying her child support and half the mortgage. I feel that I should stop paying half the mortgage and let her pay me out. Then she would see that the single life and having to pay all expenses by herself is not all that is cracked up to be. I really am in a quandry. I know I have to totally detach and let her go. I feel that I cannot move on emotionally and financially with the payments I have to make re mortgage. I don't want to get payed out as to me it would be the end.
I'm not going to do anything drastic, just need some advice. Asked W out to a concert at the and of the month and she has agreed to go with me. So that is positive.
all advice greatfully accepted. Go well people and good luck in your marriagebusting. Paul
