Hi all,

W 44
me 47
bomb nov 2005
seperated 4/2006 - I had to move out of family home
3 D's 9,11,15
1 S 13
W in MLC. Still sees OM when she can. Tells me they are not physical anymore.

My Story

W has said a few times that I will never be able to trust her again. How do I counter this statement.

We have been seperated 3 months, W and children are in the family home and I get round to see the children whenever I want. W and I can talk to each other, she just says that she has no interest in me romatically.

I am being as patient as I can be and distancing myself as much as I can whilst still seeing the children often.

If I distance myself totally W will think I am neglecting the childrens needs. Should I just focus on the children when I visit and ignore W (ie only talk to her when she initiates convo.)

Your thoughts are welcome.
TNP