W 44 me 47 bomb nov 2005 seperated 4/2006 - I had to move out of family home 3 D's 9,11,15 1 S 13 W in MLC. Still sees OM when she can. Tells me they are not physical anymore.
W has said a few times that I will never be able to trust her again. How do I counter this statement.
We have been seperated 3 months, W and children are in the family home and I get round to see the children whenever I want. W and I can talk to each other, she just says that she has no interest in me romatically.
I am being as patient as I can be and distancing myself as much as I can whilst still seeing the children often.
If I distance myself totally W will think I am neglecting the childrens needs. Should I just focus on the children when I visit and ignore W (ie only talk to her when she initiates convo.)