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I never saw a question in your post. If your talking about your subject heading, its because they are women. Thats the simple answer. All humans need validation. We are tribal creatures.



You're right, I never did quite sum it up. Yes, the subject heading was pretty much my question. It's odd, b/c although I have some insecurites, I don't really feel insecure. Then I find myself fishing for compliments and it's apparent.

I didn't want to type the exact words I used (again fear that he may read here someday). Actually what I said was "if I keep this up I'm going to be a really good fck." it was because of the way I was moving my hips. I know that stuff makes him uncomfortable though, so I shouldn't have bothered anyway.

Yes, you can call me Annie and no, he has never made me feel sexy. He does compliment me like "you look nice today" or "those pants look good on you," "you look thin in that skirt." those types of things, which are nice, but not ultimately what I'd like to hear. I keep trying to convince myself to let go of my fantasy marriage/lover and just when I think I'm okay with what I've got, I slip back into dreamland.

P.S. GEL I find your posts are so helpful and your husband is lucky to have you.