Hi NNP, well it's probably too late tonight for anything I will say to be of any use. But maybe tomorrow it will be useful Anyway, I am thinking of Michele and all this Solution Oriented stuff we are up to. It is never about talking. It is about behavior. So don't bother talking. You can think ML, but don't talk about it, act it out! What would it look like for you - what would you wear, what's the lighting like, the music. New sheets? Sleeping with your head at the foot and your foot at the head? Rosepetals, massage oil? Remember when you WERE ML - what was that like? Try recreating the atmosphere and the mood of when everything was great between you. And then have no expectations. Just keep creating the action steps that are aligned with what you want. No expectations = no disappointments. Think of it like a game or a movie - you don't know what's going to happen next, but it's fun finding out Don't forget to bring fun and play with you Let us know what happens
PositivelyListening ************************************** When one door of happiness closes, another one opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us. - Helen Keller
Anyway, I am thinking of Michele and all this Solution Oriented stuff we are up to. It is never about talking. It is about behavior. So don't bother talking. You can think ML, but don't talk about it, act it out! What would it look like for you - what would you wear, what's the lighting like, the music. New sheets? Sleeping with your head at the foot and your foot at the head? Rosepetals, massage oil? Remember when you WERE ML - what was that like? Try recreating the atmosphere and the mood of when everything was great between you. And then have no expectations. 
Just keep creating the action steps that are aligned with what you want. No expectations = no disappointments. Think of it like a game or a movie - you don't know what's going to happen next, but it's fun finding out 
Don't forget to bring fun and play with you 