Feeling my way around in the darkness

[PositivelyListening]

Hi NNP, OK I am with the guys here - someone has got to start the ball rolling - why not you? Take a trip to Victoria's Secret and buy some cute undies (a week's worth at least, go just a little over budget on those) and start wearing them around, even every day. I was surprised how much better I felt about me just taking that step. Heck, your H is watching porn when he could have a living breathing on-fire woman? Don't sell yourself short, NNP. Most of the issues I had when I was not initiating were due to me having low self esteem. I felt unattractive because H had lost interest. I didn't know at the time that he had an OW. And I was just sitting around waiting. Big mistake I wish I could do over. But you are in bed with H every night. Play with fire, seduce him back. Flirt. Wear perfume. Wear thongs. Seriously NNP, why not you initiate??? Go for it girl