Hi NNP, So here's my advice: NO LYING. You want your H to tell the truth? You want to have intimacy in your life. You need to be the change you want to see. NO LYING. Ever.
Now with that said, occasional privacy is OK. And timing is everything. But when you are ready to have an intimate R with your H, and when you trust yourself and who you are in the world, well that will be when you don't need to dance around what's so.
PositivelyListening ************************************** When one door of happiness closes, another one opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us. - Helen Keller
