Feeling my way around in the darkness

[WCW]

Money equals security and for children of alcoholics security is VERY important and with security comes strength.

Wow, I never realized that is why I squirrel money whenever possible. See? I am learning so much from YOUR counseling, maybe I should do co-pay.
I also used to do all our finances and budget, until... well, you know my story. If your H has no interest in finances, I would call that a very positive that he feels secure in the M. The negative is that he feels secure about what he does also. Money may equal security, but can that also be a false security? For instance, if you have money and feel secure, that can make you feel happy, but that is just one small feeling, and can be very false. But hey! either way $5 is better than $0.