Sounds good...amazing what we hear when we stay calm and don't start out defensive huh?
I didn't misunderstand what you said about the OM...I didn't think you had made a date to meet...I understood that you had seen him in passing...what concerned me was the "feeling" you had upon seeing him...that "not the 4th of July but"....it was the toying with feelings on your part that concerned me....
I am happy to hear that you were able to smile at your husband...this will go much farther to bringing the spark back into the relationship....
