I skimmed your sitch here! First of all. SORRY! I am truly sorry. Second . . . let me tell you this. IT WILL GET EASIER.
I've been here 8 months and counting. My H as it turns out basically kicked me out in Dec (at that point I was 2 months pregnant with our second beautiful daughter) for the OW! Who I never found out about until May!
Anywho . . enough about me.
My advice to you dear about this . . .
Quote: Other than toss in the towel, that is the only solution I can think of right now.
What do you guys think?
DETACH girlfriend!! Let him go out and run his stuff right into the ground. He has to wake up on his own. The more you shake him the more angry he will become. Trust me I tried to shake the hell outta my H and wake him up. Doesn't work. So sorry. . . there isn't an easy fix.
The decision is yours sure. You can decide to sit and wait and watch where it goes (leave the door cracked as they say) OR You can SLAM that door in his face and get on with your life. That is TOTALLY up to you . . . but since you are here I'm assuming you've choosen to wait around?!?!?!
It's hard to sit and wait and be OK . . it took me 8 months and I still screw up . . BUT it does get easier. PROMISE
That's my two cents . . don't know if it helps at all . . but I hope it does a little. Keep your chin up!
