I explained to my husband that from past experience when he was knee deep in the club, I know that there are events almost every weekend and that his daughter (my step daughter) and I like spending time with him. He came back with "that's another way of you trying to control me".
I have just finished reading Michelle's book and I don't know how to apply what I have learned to this situation. Other than let him go, not say a word and call up some friends and go out while he is out.
I hate this, but I feel there is nothing else I can do. I have already expressed how I feel about this club thing and the people that hang out at these places and I feel it is not a place for a married man to be.
Other than toss in the towel, that is the only solution I can think of right now.