piper,
Jade was struggling, but she did the right thing. I am proud of her.

Jade,
At some point you are going to have to trust your hubby. Now may or may not be that time. Only you know. It really is a tough situation. If you say no...then he will think you are being his mom etc. If you say yes...you are being vunerable.

I say you take a calculated risk. Tell him you don't want him to do the club thing because you want to spend time with him, but tell him you trust him too. Let the decision be his and then live with it. If he decides not to SUPER, if not, when he gets back give him EVERY reason to come running back to you after his "Club" weekends.

You know what I mean huh?