Thanks Piper, I know it's the wrong thing to do and that is why I haven't initiated anything. I think the reason the OM was starting to look attractive to me is because I am angry for what my H did to us. It's almost a retaliation. But I know it isn't the right thing to do. Now I just have to deal with this club thing. My H is asking if he could go to an event this weekend. I don't want him to go, but I can't stop him. You told me earlier to stop being like his mom, so maybe this is a good start. Maybe I should say "have a good time"!!
