Hi Joker, thanks for your quick response. My H has been extremely wonderful. Just this past weekend, he took me to a B&B. He is doing everything in his power to show me how sorry he is. He constantly tells me that he loves me. He definately is done with the A. He says it was a stupid mistake and that it won't happen again. He keeps telling me that he wants to move on with our marriage and put this trash behind us. So, yes, he is doing a lot to try to reassure me.
I expressed how I feel about the club after he told me that I am controlling. He said that he isn't talking to anyone at the club or going to any events because he is doing it for me. But he really wants to be a part of it.
