HMMM, that's a tough one Jade. Has he given you any indication that he wants to work on marrige? I mean he is doing all these nice things for you. Has he told you he is done with affair...did I miss??
If so, you may want to gentley expain to him about your reservations about the club. If his head is still stuck in the cloud of the affair, it will probably just piss him off and he's gonna do what he's gonna do.
Making an arguement out of it will not help.
Your H used something as an excuse to run into the affair. What do you think that thing was?
