Sorry to hear about your H imLin, I hope he gets better soon.
I guess I do have to just let my H do his thing and not worry about it! I didn't realize I was acting like his mother.
Another thing that he said is that he thinks I am too controlling. You see, he wants to be a part of a club and I don't approve of it. The club has events that he has to attend and it's nearly every weekend. Besides, he used the club to hide his PA. And some of the guys in the club even covered for him. Since the blow up, they have come to surface and have apologized to me. I feel this club is a bad influence and for a married man to be away every weekend isn't good. Is it? How should this be handled? Should he have free reign to do whatever he wants? This is so darn confusing! Of course I don't want to act like his mom! And I resent that comment. But once I say I'm okay with him joining this club again, the guys will start calling constantly and trying to get him out to go to this and that. He likes being with the guys and likes going to events......so, he will want to go to everything they invite him to. Besides, some of it will be mandatory because it's a club thing!
