ImLin, that makes a lot of sense! However, just today we had a big huge blow out. I am so ready to walk out on him!! My H accused me of being his "mom". Only because I am genuinely concerned about a certain medication that he is taking. I know he abuses it and I have to remind him to only take the recommended amount. I show concern and he pushes it away with hurtful accusations. I haven't seen the OM but it sure pushes me to him!!!!