imLIN. I gotta question for ya.

after all the horrible stuff you went through, and all the time he was gone. how in haleys comet do you forgive? I know you said you had to "let the anger go" but what i'm asking is how? and also, how do you let someone that was gone so long back?
sorry if this sounds stupid. you're a hellava strong woman to have kept chuggin while this all went down. you have my total respect.