I know how you feel, again lol. when my wife came home, she was a bitch on wheels. I was soo confused. I knew that I didnt want to hurt anymore, but her treatment was way out of bounds. so when she did something or said something rude or hurtful. I'd tell her in a non threatning way. she wanted to act like nothing ever happened, and I did too but I was still shell shocked over what had happened. any mention of what she did or how it afected the kids and she'd go balistic.
I finally told her, you don't like the guilt? the shame? then don't screw around. lol she didnt talk to me for a few days, but afterward she saw I had a limit to what i'd take.
