Thanks Ford, for your input! I truly appreciate it!
But see, the difference in your case is that your W is doing backflips to get things back on track and prove her love to you. My H wants to pretend it never happened. He doesn't understand why I am so upset about it since he chose me after the OW. He doesn't understand my insecurities. It leaves me feeling very ALONE. And, yes, it definately is an ego booster to see that someone else can be attracted to you. When the bomb dropped, I told my H that I notice him looking at other W and wanted to know if he was looking for attention. He claimed that he likes to look at beautiful people. What about me????? What the heck am I?????? He's never told me that I am beautiful! So, it's so nice to see that I haven't lost the touch and other men find me attractive.
