It's healthy for you to feel angry. It's good to vent and feel slighted. You have every reason to feel that way. Let it out jade. It's when you pin it up that it becomes dangerous, but you can't dwell on it either.
If you get involved with this OM, I can already feel a cloud and justification over coming over you, you will go through the SAME guilt and resentment for the OM and yourself that you H WILL feel for his OW and himself.
You are going through enough pain. Don't create more for yourself.
****yet when the other person is considering it...then it becomes "not the right thing to do".
because it simply is not.
Find some clarity and don't let the cloud of an affair fall on you.
If you want this OM SOOOOO bad. The fine...file for divorce and do it the right way. But you will have to live with yourself after happy boy is gone and so is your marriage.
Not trying so tough on you...but I simply cannot affirm your thought process.
Hang in there Jade. YOU are better than this. If not you would not have made it this far.
