It is not fair! Why is it okay for one person to stray, yet when the other person is considering it...then it becomes "not the right thing to do".
Yes, I am angry at my husband for even having the guts to do what he did. I am feeling more and more distant from him for doing that! I really think he pushed me to start feeling attracted to OM. I didn't ask for this to happen! I expected totally honesty and found that I am married to a dishonest person. I can't stand the thought of what he may have done with the OW. It makes me sick to my stomach and even dislike him more. Don't get me wrong, I will not do the same thing he did to me. I don't know why I feel so much anger all of a sudden. Maybe the shock and hurt is wearing off. If anything, I will ask for a separation so I can sort out my feelings.
I thank you and everyone for their total honesty. I do appreciate it.
