How old are you? You sound like a 13 year old school girl.
It isn't about feelings, it's about rational thought. It's about seeing the END in the BEGINNING. It's about realizing the damage you're about to do because of your 'feelings.'
We all have feelings. Feelings are very often wrong and lead one down a destructive path.
I have feelings. I want to call my wife and beg her to come home. I want to kick OMs ass. Rationally, that will get me NOWHERE! SO, do I act on my 'feelings' and destroy everything, or do I rationally think things out and do the right thing.
You need to find your moral compass, and fast. Without one, you have nothing to gain on this board, and you are wasting everyone's time. This board is about saving marriages, which we all hold to be quite sacred. If your main interest is the next set of hot pants walking down the street, you're in the wrong place.
David
The fires of true love can never be quenched, because the source of its flame is God Himself! - Shulamith
