hey hon, sending prayers your way)))) he's prob still weaning himself from the A. I too found records of my H trying to contact her. I recently brought up and he said he still didnt' understand why she was so nasty andmean to him at the end and he couldnt' live w/the fact she told him she hated his guts, so he tried to call her about 6 times in 3mths, only 1 convo 4min long, then he didn't call her again.
I pray this is your case, that he really wants nothing w/her and is just closing that chapter in your life.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.