here today....for a minute H has been "weird", hard to describe, but it's real, I don't doubt myself anymore. Whiny, pissy, moany, unsettled. bitching about having to work more....grumpy and more distant to me...we had the flu over thanksgiving, joy....so I thought maybe it was that, but.... this morning I got online and checked the phone bill. since the day after thanksgiving, 8 phone calls to her...only 1 more than a minute, and that was monday for 8 minutes, but I'm gonna go back and check, monday was the last day listed. then I'm going home and ask what the hell he thinks he's doing. and we'll see.