Quote: LOL!!!!! What kind of woman proposes to a married man on her knees in a MacDonald's???????????????????????? Could she BE any more of a whack-job?
oh, yeah, I think you said it all! obviously, she is more of a whack job than I ever even dreamed she was. All along a little voice in the back of my mind kept telling me that she had to be "off the deep end" to even get involved with H....to put herself in that type of situation, and to be so oblivious to what would be the most likely of the potential outcomes... Well, last night H and I talked (h talked, I listened ) and I swear more and more it comes out what a fricking fruit cake she is. lets see....cant even remember it all, I just can't take it all in after a while, but.... H did say that by her report, she has worn a dress 2 times in her life....1)her wedding, 2)to a hi school prom. I have noticed, and it's stuck in my mind as odd, that she NEVER, I mean not 1 time, has worn anything but "Khakis"...to work, church, "out & about"....plus at one point I thought she looked so much like a man, I couldnt comprehend what physical attraction there could be. I still remember the time S and I walked into Target, and she was at the check out counter, and S (then 12) said LOUDLY "oh my god, look at her, she looks like a guy!" Any way, the point of my rambling is that it has occured to me before, and it did again last night, that perhaps part of her weird motivation in seducing guys like she does is some gender identity disturbance. it has to be part of it...I wont go into details, but....
h was also talking about how she hates men....how she sucks (Hoovers)them in, sets them up, and then brings them down, from the male nurse in Ark. who lost his nursing license after she ran him through the wringer a few times, to the more recent guy she took up with here in town who was literally "rescued" by his AA co-horts who did an intervention on him...and the list goes on and on.
H hacking into her dating site emails evidently really frosted her cookies....she threatened to tell his wife about it. I had to laugh at that. She's so delusional she thinks I'd give a rat's @ss if he hacks her email?????
Evidently when they got back together last spring, she told H he had 120 days to move into her place or she would "dump" him...H said "that's about how long it took....that would have been the end of August/mid Sept"....Evidently it is somehow a big thing for h that he was able to be the "dumper" and not the "dumpee" this time. last nite H was talking about telling her she has "120 days" to find another job before he turns her into the state nursing board and cps for giving her D prescription psychotropic drugs, & tells her xh about that and the porno websites she participates in. i believe he's just blowing off steam but I did caution him to be sure he doesnt leave a black and white trail she can use against him....
several times in the discussion, all I could say was "wow", and H would say "she's really really sick"...he asked me this morning about a website on borderline personality disorder I found. interesting.
I believe she really does have a disturbed sense of reality, Honestly, I think she sees herself as Scarlett O'Hara- "except for the names and few other changes, the story's the same"...GWTW is her favorite movie after all. Plus, I'd bet the farm she was physically and sexually abused as a child.
Oh, yeah, I'm watching my back. I'm sure I don't even know 1/2 of it yet.
) and I swear more and more it comes out what a fricking fruit cake she is. lets see....cant even remember it all, I just can't take it all in after a while, but....
