I don't think i've ever posted to you but have wanted to for a while. Just couldn't seem to find words. Don't have them today either, but wanted to let you know that I understand your pain. My sitch is a bit different but has been going on for 4 years.
I just wanted you to know that no matter what happens, you should be proud of how you have dealt with your sitch. You can hold your head up high and say you've done all you can. Maybe your M can still be saved, maybe not (I still sit on the fence about my own M too), but no one can say you gave up or handled it badly.
You have been dealing with all this crap with wonderful grace and love. None of us are perfect and at times have backslides, but you always jump back on the curb and move forward with more grace.
I commend you for your love and commitment to a man who doesn't deserve you! Hopefully he will realize it before it's too late.
Good luck and much love to you and your family...
JL
Life is not measured in the breaths we take, but in the moments that take our breath away...
