Hi Cupcake... no, I didnt take your post to be negative. it is pretty much on target, I'm just having a hard time accepting that we've coem to this. I REALLY thought we'd made it, last fall (been tough since the kids moved in, yes)....
Just hard to reconcile it all, I guess.
yeah, I know, he really needs a "Come to Jesus" moment. I'm guessing he will go to the w---e....i thought she'd already cooked her own goose, but I guess not.
ah, interesting note though, regarding the slime bag....I mentioned this in another email but not here. In yesterday's local paper, in the "monday magazine" section, the cover feature article was about a couple who just got married in colorado at a car race. I didn't realize who it was until H emailed and asked if I'd seen the article about SB, and commented "looks like he's doing ok"....SB in the x-live-in bf that monster/w---e dumped for H. he moved her here from out of state. I have heard about the wild sexual excapades of the two of them. monster/w lived with him for about 2.5 years, he wanted to marry her, she wanted his house. h came along, and she dumped him. OK, the interesting twist is, the gal he just married is the gal he was with for years (according to the paper they dated since 1990-yikes)before monster came along. Not sure exactly what that says, but think it says something.
When H came grumping in the door last night, I told him I hadnt realized who it was till he told me....h just said "yeah, he spent a lot of money on his car". later I noticed that section of the paper was turned cover down.
