Hi toots, hope to see you here real soon))))))) well, in my case I'm almost 100% sure my H came back because he was devastated that OW didnt' want him either, that she bikered about he same things we'd fight about and he realized "hey, it wasnt' my wife, it was me!". He was sooooooooo miserable when he came back. He did admit later on to the C that he thought coming back would make him feel better but it didnt'. I'm guessing his depression still had a strong grip on him, he is much much better now.
Guess they do need time to process what just happened and take a hard look at themselves.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
