hope,

its been the case in my sitch - even though a lot of our issues have been resolved, my WAW wants to take her own time and not rush back (we've been sep for 5 months and it will probably be another 6 weeks before she comes back).

Your H's comment about not rushing back is exactly what I heard, fact is I took it as a huge positive compared to what I'd heard up to that point . My take on it is its a good thing, they've thought about it and have an idea about coming back, but they want to deal with "stuff" before they do. Some of this may be just his "stuff", some of it may be between the two of you. Trick is to find out what it is and how the resolution is going (this is where our MC was a great help in our sitch),

icl