More BS! Grrr. Today, I needed to go by my W's house to pick up an outfit for my S to drop him off at daycare. I had this feeling of dread about turning the corner and seeing OM's care out in front of her house. He was not there. My W was still there and told me that she needed to get in the shower. She left her cell phone on the dresser in the garage. She NEVER leaves her cell phone in my presence unattended. Did today though. After yesterday and seeing my W on MySpace.com with OM's page up, I am suspicious of her telling me anything at all truthfully. I grabbed her cell and perused her text msgs and found what look to be like text msgs to OM, complete with swearing and a "come over" msg. Now I could just paranoid and distrustful after her cheating R and all of her yahoo personals, match.com, eHarmony.com, MySpace.com, etc., but my feelings are inching me closer to where I need to be.
One more story from my W. She tells me that she has a funny story to tell me privately. When she tells me the story it's about our former co-worker who pisses her off and she tells him don't ever call me again. I tell my wife, I am going to tell you something and I hope it pisses you off. Yes, I did tell her that I hope it DOES piss her off. My W had previously told me that she thought that former co-worker (FCW) is a nice guy. I told my W that NO, in fact he is a piece of shi*t, is only interested in looking out for himself, is a liar, and knows NOTHING about his job but acts like he knows EVERYTHING. I told her he's personable yes, but nice NO.
My wife was looking at me waiting for the statement that I hoped would piss her off and I said: "Oh, he is so nice. I really like him. I like working with him." She didn't get pissed, she only said that she saw a different side of him today. I responded by saying that I am an incredibly good judge of character, usually within less than a minute and if I have two minutes, I will be dead on. She said she knows. Same conversation I had with my MIL about the same person less than a week ago. And I am asked to keep my mouth shut because I cause problems, no matter how right I end up being in the end. I hate that b/c they always come back and ask me why didn't you tell me? and say next time make sure I know. Riiiiiggggghhhhhhttttt! I am surrounded by nutcases, I tell you.
Anyhoooooo, I am finding my legs in this fight. I am pretty darn confident I am going to outlast my W and win the good fight! She's gonna get tired, that hedge of thorns is gonna work wonders, Jesus is gonna talk to her with His Voice of Truth, and I will have a lifetime to tend to the DB/DR fruits of my labor
And I am asked to keep my mouth shut because I cause problems, no matter how right I end up being in the end. I hate that b/c they always come back and ask me why didn't you tell me? and say next time make sure I know. Riiiiiggggghhhhhhttttt! I am surrounded by nutcases, I tell you. 
She's gonna get tired, that hedge of thorns is gonna work wonders, Jesus is gonna talk to her with His Voice of Truth, and I will have a lifetime to tend to the DB/DR fruits of my labor 
