Okay. For a minute there I just got a very ugly picture. I see what you're saying now though.
I'm not going to type a long point by point post, HH. But I will say that I see some good changes in the way you relate to your wife. Keep on keeping on and watch how you communicate with her and you just might turn this thing around.
And yes, listen more than you talk.
I like seeing her opening up, no matter how little. It's a good sign. What you have to watch for when that happens is that you do not become like a chihuahua jumping up at her for more. Remain cool and calm. Validate. Think before you speak. Keep doing that and she should begin to open up even more.
Sorry but I am beat tonight so that's all for now.
