Quote: Way to take charge and be Alpha Male. Strong and to the point. I like it.
Thank you, I felt good about it. The longer my sitch plays out the more often I have the opportunity to see a lot of scenarios BEFORE they happen and practice what I am going to say. When these premonitions become real, I am calm and lucid in saying what I have previously rehearsed that I need to say. Weird, but true.
Quote: As they say: "Deja F*cking Vue!"
True, true, but I know that she is already signing up for more online dating services as I type this. She's so lost and confused. I will focus on working on me and on being the rock in the relationship. This too shall pass.
Quote: read this from my old thread, around 2/7/06 where she tells her dad 'it's over' with OM, then later when she has a breakdown. It's a pattern.
I love reading about the success in your sitch and hope and pray that my sitch has a similar positive outcome. I am bothered that after this most recent OM (flavor of the month, grrr!) that she is right back to putting herself up for auction on online dating services. I am sad that she feels that she is worth so little that she resorts to these tactics in desperation.
Quote: I'm glad to hear this. THE most important thing is going to be to keep your changes FOREVER. It is so easy to drop them It's a work in progress and when you are together again SHE has to be doing the work too.
The past 5-6 months have been an emotional hell for me. I have worked so hard on me and have made changes that I am not willing to give up. I will not go back to my old M, ever. I want to build a new marriage full of love, honor, trust, fulfillment, fun, respect, worship, growth and nurturing. I love my W. I want to love her in a M that matches the love that I feel for her.
Quote: You are becoming your authentic self, and it's leaking into every facet of your life. I'm reeling from all this! You da bomb!
It feels good to know, honor and respect my authentic self. I like me when I am him. HE is deserving of a wonderful life. I will strive to be comfortable being him because I AM always him.
