I am. You have been a Godsend for me and my sitch. Question: are you selling Frank D "signature line" paddles on e-Bay that I can purchase to spank my W?? How much are they? How sturdy are they? LOL
I think I should, I could make some bucks. Times are tight in this house right now and I could use the bucks!
Spank away! You're sounding very healthy.
I would think you could 'goad' the 'the "Marriage Cancer,"' woman into telling you how your W was unhappy with you for years and was not such an angel with other men, or confirm that she was faithful.
I would think she would be happy to tell you this if it was true. It gives her 'power'. Not sure how I would ask it though. Maybe something like "I know she was unhappy for years. She would stay out late and I knew she was with someone else". Just to see what response you get.