Quote: I think you are on the track to recovery. YOU will be fine. SHE may wake up in time. Hard to say.
Thank you, my friend. I can only hope and pray and continue my tireless work on my bottomless pit of issues. I will. I know it's hard to say what, if anything, and when, if ever, she will work on herself.
Quote: You really handled this very well. One thing I would say is that she should NOT be introducing OM to the kids because SHE IS NOT DIVORCED. Yes, she is being selfish and putting her kids needs LAST.
I know and I know. Problem is, she doesn't. And when I say anythnig it's (in her mind) b/c I am trying to control her. As the saying goes, Denial. It's not just a river in Egypt.
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Quote: My experience with her is that shes lies incessantly, either blatantly or by omission. I don't trust much of what she says these days. THAT is a sad change because I used to trust her w/o question. She would often return home 3-4 hours late w/o a phone call, w/o answering her cell phone and w/o an explanation other than I was out with my friends. In retrospect, I never even quesioned that unaccpetable BS behavior. I trusted her. Now I think, hmmm...?
Interesting, is there anyone who may have been with her during some of these events who you could ask about them?
Sure, if I didn't mind creating an even larger sh*tstorm with W's friend's like the "Marriage Cancer," who took her to the A.A. meeting to meet up with her BF from 10 years ago whom W tried to hook up with when my A came to light. Nice people to choose from, her friends. 4 of her good friends are pieces of sh*t and cheerlead her sh*tty decisions in M and life. I'd rather leave it for her to know and reconcile when the time comes. THAT is her cross to bear, not mine.
Quote: Keep holding your ground.
I am. You have been a Godsend for me and my sitch. Question: are you selling Frank D "signature line" paddles on e-Bay that I can purchase to spank my W?? How much are they? How sturdy are they? LOL
