Amy, rather than asking me to read your mind, I would appreciate it if you would please bless me with your perspective on my actions/words that you deem "messing up." I am clearly at a loss as to how to communicate effectively with my W. Aslo, I seem to often be messing up in working to communicate and be in any kind of R with my W.
Quote: Well you saved your butt there at the end by saying you had realized you talked too much again so I won't rip your head off.
FYI, I am not in the "getting my head ripped off" business. I seem to have the uncanny ability to piss off those I care for quite easily even though it is unintentional.
Quote: I was under the impression you had already seriously decided to find another job....
I am, but my last search fell through and I need to get back into the job search mode. I seem to be addicted to my F-ing sitch and all the headaches/heartaches that come with it.
Quote: I bet that's a terrible place to work for the other employees...never knowing what's going to happen if they get "caught" talking to you too much.
Not sure if that is a dig on me, her, or BOTH of us. They all seem to be doing fine. We keep it civil at work, although I don't have any idea what she says when she has a private audience.
Quote: I'm not going to say whole lot here, HH.
I seem to be boring you lately with my lack of "proper" DB/DRing.
Quote: Read your own words and tell us where else you messed up...
If I had all of the answers for me and my sitch I wouldn't be here. I re-read it and the only thing that becomes more clear every day is my need to back off and give her her D before the divorce. She makes what I need to do more and more clear for me each day with her insensitive, self-centered behavior. Makes me sad, but makes my path clear. Back off in a loving way.
