Quote: Regarding OM at her house, many people I have seen who are sep / divorced have an order forbidding ADULT NON FAMILY MEMBERS from staying overnite at the house where the KIDS are.
I neglected to finish my thought on this point. When we reach the point of obtaining a court order, this WILL be addressed, as will my child support that I have been willingly paying (too much, by my calculations).
Time will sort all of this out. And yet I remain hopeful that we will restore, rebuild and reconcile our M. We'll see. I'll work on me and pray.