Quote: I will focus on caring for our children, but W is in the mode to make that difficult with her behavior e=when tour children are in her care and W won't share with me what is causing an upset in our children's lives and W tells me that she can't remember when I question her about an upset.
I feel like I am swimming upstream in dealing with my W and the current is growing stronger against me.
HH,
Your W is suffering from a severe case of A-HOLE.
Regarding OM at her house, many people I have seen who are sep / divorced have an order forbidding ADULT NON FAMILY MEMBERS from staying overnite at the house where the KIDS are.