Quote: I have become crystal clear that I cannot make her discoveries for her. I cannot have epiphanies for her. I cannot work on her issues for her. I can only work on me and show her my powerful example of changing me with effort, diligence and determination.
Half the battle is coming to that realization. You're already there.
Quote: I have so far to go in practicing DB/DR guidelines. I often feel like I have screwed up most of my M being on autopilot and I struggle to take back control rather than doing my usual more of the same sh*t.
Yeah, remember that 'taking back control' doesn't men to become 'controlling'. It means to reclaim what control over YOU that you have given up.
