I haven't been on here for several months. In October I came down with a bad case of shingles, which sent me to the hospital for 5 days. I had it in my left ear, as as a result, I lost my hearing in that ear.
I had one divorce mediation session with my w, then my sickness and the holidays interrupted all of that. This month we have our second mediation session. She expresses no interest in reconciling or worjing out any issues, comes by the house about 3 times a week now to walk our dog.
I would still like to save our marriage but it looks like Virginia law will force a divorce to happen.
