Oh yes...I can send anyone who emails me the questionairre...I sent it to Smurf several months ago--and a few others I believe.
Quick opinion regarding Alex's wife and affair. She hasn't alked about it much...and if this is MLC I've said it seems pretty mild...more midlife transion like...she's just so nice! Lucky you for that.
But because she feels she wouldn't be able to fprgive herself or you wouldn't be able to forgive...and she certainly doesn't act lovestruck with anyone...I think if she does or is having an affair the sole purpose will be sabotage. She won't do it because she's interested in someone else but to make sure she burns her bridges.
The thing is...Bridges built of love may burn...but they cannot be consumed/destroyed.